I should be asleep, but. Two instances got me thinking:
1-Somehow Kate has collected a large sum of Best Buy gift cards.
"I'm going to get us something for our apt next year" she told me one night when she was flossing her teeth in the bathroom. "Mm, like what?" I imagined something thrilling like a DVD player. "Girl, do you know they sell stand mixers there?"
A while back our little group of friends vowed that for our weddings we would buy each other mixers. "I told a person at work about our little pact to buy mixers, and they looked at me really weird" Kate told me. I shrugged my shoulders. There's nothing weird about getting your whipped cream whipped fast.
2- Two weeks ago Emma and I went to Patina with baby O. Some rude high school girl made a comment to her friend after staring at me about the show 16 and Pregnant. Hm, last time I checked I didn't look sixteen, but actually twenty-five. Which is a perfectly acceptable age to have a baby, and he's not mine anyway. Moving on.
We spotted the newest version of our mutual favorite cookbook- inspired by the mini magazines "Everyday Food" by Martha. I was kind of envious because Emma bought it right there on the spot.
I was so excited because she was so excited, and well- there are some damn good recipes in there.
So the moral of these two stories?
We are modern women, and we are domestic, too. We like to: cook, organize, bake, admire babies, tie on aprons, enjoy flowers, wear pearls, and get dressed up. We also like to: tell men how it rolls, work jobs, get dirty, drive fast, and stand up for what's right.
I am so incredibly blessed to be surrounded by such women. They are constant reminders to me that I am as much girly girl as a I am strength.
Boo Boo and I at my graduation party. One year ago (almost). Wow.